Ways To Support Parents of Children With Autism
All parents need support, and sometimes parents of children with autism need it the most. If you’re unsure how to approach the situation or extend a helping hand, no worries! It can be stressful trying to help because you don’t want to come off as offensive or judgmental. You’ll be surprised how much a kind gesture can support the parents and the child. Here are a few ways to help parents of children with autism.
Understand Autism
The most important and greatest way to show your support to parents of children with autism is to learn about and understand autism. Y’all know everyone is different, and autism manifests itself in many ways. By understanding the dos and don’ts of interacting with children with autism, you can be a big help to the child and the parents.
Don’t Judge Them
Being a parent is hard work, especially if your child has a spectrum disorder. Please don’t judge the parent if it seems they can’t “control” their child or how they choose to deal with certain scenarios. The parent may also be frustrated, and it’s important that you show grace instead.
Include Them and Their Child
Being inclusive is extremely important in all social settings and scenarios. Invite the parent and child to activities or parties to encourage them to participate. Inviting a child with autism to a get-together should not be labeled as “inspirational” or “brave,” because these children are not charity cases. It’s simply kind, y’all, to invite everyone!
Connect with the child’s family and teach children to be understanding and open to making new friends. You have no idea how much one nice gesture can help someone.
Be an Advocate
Parents and children who are living with autism face challenges every day. Unfortunately, some people in the world do not treat people with autism nicely. You can help support parents of children with autism by being a part of the change by advocating and standing up for them against discrimination or rude remarks. Sometimes just asking the parent what they need is the best gesture of all.
