Quick Resolutions for Better Toddler Behavior
If your child’s behavior has declined recently or you’re having problems with them, it can be for a number of reasons. While this might be something bigger than a few home issues, a lot of time, it’s because a child needs some guidance and love in their life. Toddlers often misbehave but if you’re quick to call them out and tell them that they should be behaving differently, they will change their habits quickly. Sometimes, when tasks and schedules get overwhelming, it can help to make a to-do list to make things feel more focused and manageable. The same goes for organizing your toddler. Take a quick look at these resolutions for better toddler behavior and see which tips will work for you. Hopefully, you can sort things out and feel more positive by the end of the blog and be on your way to successful parenting life.
Get Serious About Sleep
Everyone gets tired and cranky sometimes, as a parent we often find ourselves feeling overtired and cranky – even irritable. It’s the same for kids, even if we sometimes forget this. Most toddlers get far less sleep than their growing bodies need, and this is especially true for those who lack a bedtime routine. Teenagers need even more sleep than some younger children which is why they’re so cranky all the time.
Just keep in mind that according to studies, toddlers should get around 10 to 14 hours sleep, this includes a nap and then at least 10 hours at night. A well-rested child is a well-behaved child as they can function better throughout the day, even if you’re doing physical activities that will tire them out even more. If you find your child isn’t tired of an evening, it may mean you need to get them out and about more – running around and having fun.
Simplify Rules and Be Firm
Rules are universal, but it can be difficult for children to understand the ins and outs of certain rules you have in your home. If it seems like you have 50 or so family rules, try to stress the important ones to your toddler and determine the consequence for each rule. Being firm is also important as you don’t want to give in, short term or long term. In order for consequences to be effective, you must follow a certain procedure every time.
You will find that simplifying the rules, so your child understands them means they are better behaved for everyone they meet and interact with.
Stick to a Routine
Children thrive on routine, so clearly define routines for every day. Then, when challenging times happen, such as mornings or after schools, you can overcome them. Let your kids help decide how the routines will go – then for the younger children, write out the order of the routine using pictures or words and let them decorate it and hang it up. Making fun out of the routines is always a great idea.
Be Happy and Worry Later
Unfortunately, children will be misbehaved sometimes. However, this isn’t something you should worry about. It’s always great to have a child who behaves well but the reality is always different. As a parent, you shouldn’t get caught up in your child’s behaviors, just take your time and wait for them to comes around soon enough.
Don’t Ignore the Source of Misbehavior
Thinking about misbehaving children, while it’s important to try and change them in their behaviors – it’s also key to consider why they’re misbehaving in the first place. With older children, it is easy to ask them, and they would probably tell you. However, toddlers can’t highlight their issues through words, they may do this by crying so it’s key to keep an eye out for them doing so. For example, if you’re testing products in a baby store and your child likes one, you will know by their reaction. The same is with toddler behavior.
Be Patient
Patience is a virtue, your child may misbehave sometimes but it’s key to stay patient, cut through the chaos and follow the tips above. You’ll soon start seeing better toddler behavior from your children and you can create a happier and more peaceful home.
While these tips will help you and set you on the right path, don’t expect things to change overnight. It is a lot of hard work to allow your children to find independence in the world. Behavioral issues are a natural part of life and they will come and go – enjoy your children and make memories while they’re only young.
